The men and women must see: the eight kinds of situation you will sooner or later break up

One, you care about each other more you love, but do not determine each other's thoughts; do you feel is appropriate, he seemed to disagree; he is not you miss him, you do not he seemed no difference What does this mean?

"Two concentric if not, how can we peer?" Sometimes there will be a party to love the other more the case in the sound feelings, there will be the turn of the phenomenon, the two take turns playing the role of pursuit and pursuit of;However, if one always play a suitor, such feelings are not perfect, last long, you will love hungry, you will feel by the other control, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.

 You love each other's potential you love each other's potential, rather than each other like you love each other the future might look like, and that he is not your partner, but the transformation of the object.

 Each time we make pre-marital counseling would ask, if the other fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied? If you want to change the other side, it felt quite satisfied, it is not love, but gambling, with both sides happyas a bet. When dealing with a person, to love and respect each other's Physiognomy, not his future looks like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with his current.

 You want to help each other you often feel sorry for you? You think you have the responsibility to help each other to cheer up? You will not be afraid if you leave the other side, he will not stand against? If it is, I'm afraid you is a "rescuemad. "

 Rescue mad not to find a suitable object, but to find that he sympathized with the object can help. Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, being loved, aggrieved person, you love by the pity of Health, he would be grateful your heart, this feeling like a rescue mission, rather than a sound, balanced feelings. The key to remember here is "respect", the object of your love you can respect, you must be very proud of each other, your partner do not want you to rescue, but do you really know him.

 Four to each other as objects of worship young actress fell in love with the director, college students fall in love with the professor, secretary fell in love with the boss ... and fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can notequal treatment. Both men and women must be equal treatment, I do not mean the position, but the attitude, not idolize. Will fall in love with the object of worship, often low self-confidence, they feel that they are bad.

 Five, you have only each other appearance to attract everyone this way, right? If you find that he was deeply attracted by the other side of a trait to ask ourselves if the other side there is no pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice of ..., if the person is not the model will not play basketball ...... I will tell him (her) with it? men the appearance is the first productive force.

 Opportunities for short-term daily life and each other to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel the love with each other ... You go on holiday three weeks, to recognize a man on holiday, you feel like falling in love .... A short morning till evening, in a scrape in the special circumstances, is not routine, such feelings can not be sustained, because a short period of daily life, can not make you completely understand each other's personality.

 Order to treason before choosing this object parents always stressed the object to find the money, but why each of your boyfriend pauper; young parents strict rules happens to you each girlfriend too casual; childhood on his father daily instruction, pass incense is the most important thing, but why your girlfriend is not can not be born, that is, do not want ... if you selected the object, always make their parents angry, it is likely that you just want to rebel, do you thinkmust prove anything to fight back, this affair is doomed to no avail.

 Eight, the other is not freedom of the body I made ​​this point for last, because it simply can not be regarded as emotional. The first is that choice of partner for life - the other is a "freelance". "Freelance" is free to interact with you, not married, not engaged, there is no fixed contacts in, did not go to bed and the others, single people and your contacts.